buku self - help

g dah baca beberapa buku tentang self help.
SELF Help disini dalam artian untuk jadi
the better you,
living your best year,
and move on from your dissapointments in your life..

semua buku2 yang g baca intinya kita harus terus OPTIMIS
dan
punya satu bayangan akan kita di masa
depan dengan segala pencapaian yang kita inginkan...

it's easy really you just have to take 100% responsibility for your life..
and NOT complaining to others IF you know that those complaints direct to the wrong person.

example : I have a problem with my spouse and I complain about it to my BOSS.

see?? the SPOUSE and the BOSS are different person.
you can't ask your BOSS to talk to your SPOUSE and have him/her to solve your relationship problem..

UNLESS your Spouse IS your Boss.. nah klo lu mau komplain ya komplain lah sama orang yang tepat... klo lu ga bisa , ya jangan komplain..

jadi cape buat lu and buat yang ngedengerin....

but it's really hard to keep our mouth shut and don't complain!
Right??

yes, it's hard . if it's that easy there will be no book that discusses it..

but Human's life aren't made to be easy ..
because without any problem , we won't be able to grow and becoming stronger and of course better!!

" if you stop Struggling then you STOP Living"